It is weird because there is a lot to be said about choice.
IT IS ONE THING WHEN YOU CAN BELIEVE IT IS YOUR CHOICE WHEN AND WHEN NOT TO HAVE A CHILD. BUT WHEN THAT CHOICE IS MADE FOR YOU. WHEN A DOCTOR TELLS YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE NO WAY! NO ONE CAN UNDERSTAND THAT. YET, MANY DO NOT TALK ABOUT IT WHAT A SURPRISE.
Whether you are a man and have problems with your sperm or the women being told it not healthly or physically possible I am not sure anyone but God can understand that pain. I just think people think they understand but its hard to understand. With God all things are possible but what if in the same way the Creator chooses some to be single and others to be married; what if he calls some to raise their own children and some to raise none or that of others.
Just a thought. I am praying for my friend, my spouse and those of you knew that know the pain of future dreams Greif & Pain.